11 Newborn & Postpartum Items I Wish I’d Known About For Baby #1

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Update: These past couple of weeks (five, to be exact), all I’ve been doing is prioritizing. In other words, all I’ve been doing is cuddling with my little guy. He’s all about skin to skin and eating (and, by that, I mean every hour or two during the day), so my routine has pretty much been focused on his needs alone. I’m lucky if I can even shower most days! The hardest part about new motherhood, the second time, is making sure the needs of both your children are met. Liam has been a bit difficult at times, as we expected, mostly because he senses that we need to “split” our time between the two of them. Making sure he gets enough attention, especially when Joe is working a long shift at the firehouse, has been my biggest challenge so far.

I know I often write posts about items I swear by–and this time is no different–however, this time, I thought long and hard about the items that I really have been using nonstop since Noah has entered our lives. New motherhood is not easy, and it’s comforting to know that I have some staples to depend on at home.

I wanted to make this post about baby, but also about me – because coming into the world is a huge adjustment (obviously), but being a new mom of two and recovering from childbirth is no joke, either. We need all the help we can get – I’m sure that’s something we can all agree on!

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Sometimes nursing bras really suck. High cut, bulky, not really cute… These Caramel Cantina bralettes aren’t actually nursing bras, but are just as convenient in terms of slipping on and off. They also have no underwire, which has become a must for me as a busy mom. I love them!

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I mentioned a while ago that, ever since getting off birth control in 2015 and getting pregnant, I have been experiencing on and off hormonal acne. It’s been tough because, as a breastfeeding mom, I haven’t been able to use anything strong enough to get rid of it once and for all.

Well… now that I’ve found the brand TreeActiv, I’ve been able to prevent most of my “time of the month” breakouts. Their line ranges from skincare to hair and household products, but I can only speak from experience about their Acne Eliminating Facial Cleanser and Acne Eliminating Face Cream. The combo makes for such a deep clean and I’ve become obsessed with both products as part of my daily shower/skincare routine.

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I’ve mentioned our awesome SNOO bassinet before, but this one had to make the list again. This is the sturdiest, most high tech bassinet out there! Noah sleeps so much better with white noise and rocking, and the SNOO covers both of these: it gently rocks your baby throughout the night, and has surround sound with white noise that increases/changes if your baby gets fussy throughout the night. This has really helped me figure out if Noah is just fussy/gassy or actually hungry. The “5 Second Swaddle” system is probably my favorite thing about the SNOO, and has made our bedtime routine so effective. The price is up there, but if you think about it, it’s really just six bucks a day… and you can’t put a price tag on a good night’s sleep. I couldn’t recommend it more!

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Little Tinkers World has us covered with the essentials: a super convenient baby brush set, diaper caddy (I literally swear by this thing!), and cozy baby towels. Noah is super sensitive to the cold, and I quickly regretted buying tiny newborn towels that you can’t wrap tightly around your baby. Their bear, lion, and elephant (ours!) towel is so versatile that it can work for toddlers and newborns alike… and they’re so warm and cozy!

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Having a winter baby is very different from a summer one. I can’t say I’m a fan of having a newborn in the winter months, because I am constantly terrified of viruses going around. When we went for our first pediatrician visit, the office was jam packed with feverish toddlers, and Joe and I couldn’t sanitize our hands often enough. We were so paranoid! When the doctor asked that we come back a few days later for a weight check, we knew it was silly if we could order a scale and do it ourselves in our flu-free home. I’m so glad we found this multi-function digital scale by Intu-MedTime, because it transitions into a kid/adult scale once the baby stage is over. It’s been so convenient, and we’ve used it a handful of times already.

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These are just my favorite nursing tops ever. Chic, simple, convenient. You’re welcome.

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Another caddy because I love these things! This one, by Littlest Sweet, is in our bedroom and has saved me many trips to and from the nursery (Noah is still sleeping with us in our room). It has room to fit literally everything and, with a newborn, we all know that’s a necessity.

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Again, I’ve mentioned our organic cotton SnuggleMe before… but it’s one of my favorites. I bring it with me all around the house as I go about our day (I even stick it in our Snoo for naps!), and Noah sleeps so peacefully because of the bumpers. This one’s definitely a must for all new moms!

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I got these battery-operated fans by Gazeled and Perfect 4 You on Amazon for our May trip to Saint Martin because I know how hot afternoons can get in the Caribbean. The fans clip on to strollers and car seats on-the-go, but can also stand on flat surfaces for nap time or outdoor activities. I know we’ll be using these for both of our kiddos every day!

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Force of Nature has revolutionized the way I clean our home, bathroom, toys, highchair, and, basically everything we own. It is a powerful, all-purpose cleaning system that transforms tap water plus a capsule of salt, water & vinegar into a non-toxic all-purpose cleaner & deodorizer as effective as bleach. It can be used on any surface that gets greasy, grimy, sticky, or stinky, and is proven to clean as effectively as conventional cleaners. Only difference is it contains zero fragrances, dyes, preservatives, allergens or irritants. No gloves or rinsing needed, either! It’s gentle enough for baby gear, so I never have to worry about any toxic residue. This one is truly a game changer.

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Meet the activity gym of the future: one that grows with your baby! Created by child development experts, The Play Gym by Lovevery includes five development zones that reveal or conceal to prevent overstimulation and promote brain and motor skill development: learning to focus, making sounds, how things feel, hiding and finding, and exploring colors. It is crafted using 100% baby-safe materials, including FSC-certified wood and organic cotton mouthable accessories. Bonus feature? It converts into a play fort for toddlers.

Mom win!


Prepping for a Second Natural Birth

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I was dead set on having a natural birth with my first baby, Liam. I wanted the sense of empowerment and accomplishment that came with a drug-free birth, and was very confident that I could do it. I watched positive birth videos on Youtube, took a childbirth class with a focus on breathing and coping techniques, and really thought long and hard about my reasons for wanting my birth to be as natural as possible.

If you are unfamiliar with the benefits of a drug-free, natural birth, click here.

I will say, however, that I speak from personal experience when I share natural birth posts on my site – my births were transformative moments for me, and I encourage any Mama considering the natural route to trust herself and give it a shot. That being said, my intention is not to offend anyone who had an epidural or cesarean birth – all Moms are heroes, regardless of how they bring their babies into the world.

Although I went to the hospital super educated about childbirth the first time, I didn’t do much the second time around. I didn’t take a “refresher” course on childbirth, didn’t watch any videos, and didn’t reread Ina May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth. I felt comfortable enough with the whole process having gone through it once. I will say, however, that I did prepare myself mentally for childbirth. I made sure I was confident in my ability to labor naturally a second time, and didn’t let doubt or insecurities get the best of me. I recommend that, no matter whether this is your first, second, or third birth, you make sure you are in a positive headspace as you prepare for labor.

Additionally, here are five things I did this time around to prepare for childbirth #2 . . .

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I think the number one reason I made it through my entire labor without an epidural or other pain medication is because of my breathing. Now, don’t get me wrong: I am no yogi or expert in breathing techniques. I did, however, realize that deep inhales/exhales took away some of the contraction pain, and allowed me to focus on something other than how awful they felt in the moment. I remember that during my first birth I found comfort in knowing each contraction built up to a peak, then got easier to manage as it faded out. As long as I got over the peak, I realized, the hard part was behind me. When it comes to breathing, I alternated between one long inhale/long exhale and one long inhale/a few short, steady exhales. Whatever works for you!

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It was crucial for me to have my Mom there for baby #2. I had a great experience giving birth with both my husband and Mom by my side and knew that if I wanted to feel comfortable, I’d need them both there the second time, too. Make sure that you feel good about whoever you choose as your support team – don’t do it to make anyone other than yourself happy. It’s about being relaxed throughout the whole experience, not tense and uncomfortable. That just defeats the purpose.

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The hospital I chose for both of my births has pretty awful food and isn’t really the most modern, beautiful place in the world. However, they have the lowest intervention rate in Westchester County, and is one of two hospitals where you can have a midwife-assisted birth. These two things were my utmost priority, not the room service menu. Bottom line is this: pick a hospital (and doctor/midwife, of course) that aligns with your philosophy and needs, whatever those may be.

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For my first birth, my midwife was very hands on. She told my husband how he could best support me throughout the contractions, and offered many different position ideas throughout my labor.  This was so helpful, especially when I started to panic and wondered whether the pain was bearable or not. Luckily, this time, I memorized a few pain relief positions to be able to figure it out on my own. Labor & Delivery was super busy the night I gave birth to Noah, and I definitely didn’t get the one-on-one attention I got the first time. I’m really glad I was able to work through the contraction pain on my own! This time, I did a lot of leaning onto the bed/table and swaying my hips. For some other pain relief position ideas, click here.

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This one is a bit controversial, but my midwives swear by raspberry leaf tea and evening primrose oil during the third trimester to prepare the body for labor (my first labor was a little under ten hours long, and my second a little under seven… Not the quickest births, but definitely not the longest either!) For more information on how both raspberry leaf tea and evening primrose work for pregnancy/labor, click here and here.

If a natural birth is something you are considering, make sure you check out my posts “Natural Birth Does Not = Torture” and “Is Natural Birth a Possibility for You? 10 Tips to Help You Achieve One”.)

10 Things All Moms Need to Do Before Baby Arrives

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I’m almost full term (37.5 weeks!) and it’s checklist time. I have this uncontrollable urge to renovate, clean, organize, and nest, despite everyone telling me to lie down and stop moving so much! But, like I said, it’s uncontrollable.

I realized that although there are some basic things we know we have to get done before baby arrives — like installing car seats, or finishing the nursery — there are tons of small details we totally overlook, especially as we reach the final stretch. Here are 10 things you should definitely do before your new, little bundle of joy makes his/her appearance:

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Especially if you have other kids at home, it’s so easy to forget to take care of yourself. Make sure you take the time, during these final weeks, to get pampered. This could be as simple as a pedicure or a facial, or maybe even a quick blow out at your favorite salon. Take care of yourself before the next couple of months… they’ll involve way too many pairs of sweatpants and dry shampoo bottles!

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Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.05 AMWe didn’t do this with Liam and regretted it! Even if it’s just three or four meals, it’s better than nothing! What we’ve been doing this time around is freezing our leftovers in glass tupperware so we have some “last resort” options on days when we really don’t have the time (or energy) to cook anything.

Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.10 AMBefore baby gets here, put together a very simple weekly/monthly meal plan so that you don’t have to overthink any of your meals on the spot. You’ll have much more important things to do in the next few weeks! Think easy and minimal ingredients, if possible.

Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.15 AMThis has been my motto in the past few weeks! I’ve been tackling cabinets, closets, drawers… anything that seems overstuffed or cluttered. Remember that with a baby comes a whole lot of mess, so just get a head start and organize what you can.

Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.19 AMThis one is big, too: use your time wisely and clean one room or cabinet at a time. I know that I’m in a much better headspace when my home is clean, so this is a priority. I want to be able to focus on baby, without worrying about dust or grime!

Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.24 AMWe signed up for Amazon Fresh as soon as they started out, and I love ordering our groceries that way! Amazon has the absolute best customer service and I love knowing that if something isn’t to my liking I can call and they will refund me, no questions asked. Having your groceries come to you will save you so much energy and time, too. Who needs toddler/baby tantrums at Trader Joe’s when they don’t have to?

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Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.34 AMAfter giving birth to Liam, I constantly told my husband I was bummed we didn’t take enough photos of my bump. This time around, I try to take as many photos as I can! These will be so much fun to look at later on, and our kiddos love to look through them, too!

Screen Shot 2018-01-17 at 11.38.38 AMOnce again, when we’re so focused on our little one, it’s so easy to forget that we need clothes to! Run to Target and get yourself some nursing bras, nursing tank tops, cozy pajamas, fuzzy socks, anything that you would like to live in for the next few months! I also recommend ordering some freezer pads, reusable nursing covers, and breastmilk collection shields! All must-haves during the first few weeks… You’re welcome!

Potty Training Boys (Without the Fuss)

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One day, out of sheer madness, we decided to do it. You know, the whole stuck-at-home-for-three-days potty training method. Cabin fever, and all. We did it. And believe it or not, those three days turned into five. We didn’t leave the house for five days. And, in the end, it was the best decision ever.

When I look back on our potty training journey (it’s been about two months now, so not exactly a “journey” per say), I realize that although all toddlers are different, there is a science behind the whole process. Can you do it differently? Sure, but it might just take a lot longer, and there might be a lot more fuss, which is something we were desperately trying to avoid. My husband had just gotten tricep surgery and I was (and still am) in my third trimester of pregnancy. Not exactly a time during which you have the energy or motivation to pin your child down to a toilet multiple times a day.

Note: We are not planning on tackling nap time or nighttime for a little while. Liam still wakes up with very wet diapers and our goal is to simply reduce our diaper usage and get him to become independent during the day. He starts preschool next September and we’d rather get him potty training and not have to start from scratch when his newborn brother gets here.

Screen Shot 2017-12-31 at 11.32.17 AMSince Liam had shown us that he was capable of going both number 1 and 2 on the potty back in July, we knew he at least felt familiar with the whole thing, and was more or less ready to tackle it. I think this is a major tip for all parents thinking about potty training in the near future: make sure your child is ready to start. Follow his/her lead. “Ready” can mean that your child stays dry for many hours during the day, or that he/she simply asks to use the “big girl/boy potty” on his own. You can also make sure your child sees you, or your partner, use the bathroom. That way he/she understands that this is what adults and big kids do. Back in July, we sat Liam onto his potty chair in front of a cartoon and kept prompting him to push, and he did. We weren’t able to fully commit then, and had to wait a bit, but it gave him a few months to mature and be even more ready.

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When I say the “three day” method (or, in our case, five) was the best decision ever, it’s because we did the whole potty training thing cold turkey. Liam went commando for the first three days, then with pants (no diaper) the next two. We didn’t leave the house, so he didn’t get confused about what to do on the go. We simply reminded him every 15-20 minutes (then eventually every 30-45 minutes) by asking him if he needed to use the potty. These reminders were eventually no longer needed, and Liam actually went by himself or asked us to help him use the potty. The learning process felt very natural and unforced, and we didn’t have to put anything “on hold” during that week. We didn’t use pull ups or anything that could potentially confuse him, either.

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We’d read a lot about having a reward system in place, and, for Liam, it definitely worked. We give him a high five for number 1 and a lollipop and sticker on his chart for number 2. We praise him every time he runs to the potty on his own (without us having to remind him it’s time to go), and he really does feel proud of himself. Avoid scolding your child if he/she has an “accident”, and simply tell him/her that, next time, they need to use the potty quickly before it’s too late.

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We had a good potty training journey so far, but that doesn’t mean Liam won’t have regressions. It’s common when a baby comes into the picture, or with any other “big” changes at home. Sometimes, he’ll decide to be difficult and have a few accidents because he tries to hold it too long. Other days, he’ll do amazingly well. Just like with sleeping through the night, be consistent, patient, and try not to give up when it’s hard. It’s all a learning process!


When it was time to actually take the “big step”, I did a ton of research to buy all the “must-have” potty training items. I’ll admit I went a little overboard at first, but now, two months in, I can honestly say the items below are our family’s favorites… and they’re all available on Amazon!


Screen Shot 2017-12-31 at 11.32.37 AMScreen Shot 2017-12-31 at 11.36.40 AMThis potty seat is Liam’s favorite, probably due to its soft cushion and fun design and handles. I love that it comes with a reward chart and stickers, too! We’ve been using them every time he goes number 2, and he’s always beaming with pride when we let him pick out his sticker. The potty is very secure due to its unique “lock” system, and it honestly does not budge once tightened. It’s a winner in our house!

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We use the Perfechi potty seat in our second bathroom (the one Liam uses occasionally) and actually really like that it’s so simple, resembling a regular toilet seat. At the end of the day, no bathroom seats have cozy padding and fancy designs, so this is a good thing for him to get accustomed to as well.

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I really wasn’t sure if Liam was going to love PoGO. He tends to be scared of toys that move/speak, so I was curious to see what his reaction would be. Turns out, it’s now his favorite toy! Developed by a parent and psychologist, PoGO says things like “I’m so proud of you!” and other positive potty-related phrases, but also reminds your child every 45 minutes to use the potty. Liam takes those reminders very seriously and always takes PoGO with him. Bonus: he’s washable!

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My biggest fear about potty training was that Liam would go in the car seat or in the stroller when we’re out and about. This car seat protector has been a life saver! Not that Liam has ever peed his pants in the car (yet!), but it gives me some much needed peace of mind. It’s crash test approved, fully waterproof, and easy to throw in the wash!

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There you have it, Mamas! My tips and must-haves for potty training without a fuss. It is important to note that, on average, boys are potty trained later than girls, so do not stress it if your child has no desire to use the potty quite yet. Besides, it gets a lot more stressful without diapers… so if you’re not 100% ready, then it’s worth the wait. I thought it would be a nightmare potty training Liam, but it was actually not as difficult as I thought it would be, and it taught Liam to communicate with us a lot better. Minus the accidents and occasional grumpiness, we’ve managed to make it relatively fun!

5 Resolutions All Moms Need to Make For 2018

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You want to know something? I’m not one of those people who makes a list of resolutions every year. I never vow to go to the gym 4-5 times per week, cut out gluten from my diet, or spend at least every other Sunday with family.

I just never believed in the idea of coming up with a list of things to feel guilty about if I wasn’t able to see it through. There is nothing more disappointing than a resolution that only makes it a couple of weeks before fizzling out.

I like to think of the new year, and the whole “resolutions” thing, as a time to reflect on myself as a person. What am I proud of this year? What do I need to change? I take a long, hard look at myself and try to figure out where there’s room for improvement. It takes the pressure out of resolutions, and allows me to meditate on myself, my growth, my personal journey.

My resolutions are always pretty vague and abstract. They’re small tweaks and adjustments I want to make in my life, mostly in the way I live my life, and I treat them as daily reminders. I don’t need to be perfect, I just need to know that these are the things that I would benefit from. These are the things that will get me closer to my “authentic” me. My true, uninhibited self.

So here it goes, Mamas… My list of resolutions for 2018. I do believe that although these are personal adjustments, they apply to all of us – as moms, we are so accustomed to taking care of everyone that we should take the time to focus on ourselves and not lose sight of who we are not just as moms, but as women, first and foremost.

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Little obstacles arise every single day, and they sometimes get the best of me. These “inconveniences” can be as silly as an overstuffed freezer that keeps collapsing when I open the door, or the fact that I haven’t done groceries in two weeks and have started running out of meal ideas.

This year, let’s learn to prioritize – put those “small things” on the back burner, and focus on what’s important. We will be welcoming a new addition into our family in a matter of weeks, and this is something I need to remember: I do not need to handle it all. Some things can wait. They will, whether I like it or not, and that’s okay. I can choose to be overwhelmed by this, or simply let it go. Choose option B. 

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I’ve been in many situations this year where I witnessed things that didn’t sit right with me. Many times I chose to stay quiet, and, all of the times I did, it made me physically unwell to keep this negativity inside of me. In 2018, I choose to voice my feelings, sometimes without filter. I choose to be that friend who will tell you what you need to hear (although you might not want to), and that person who doesn’t just nod if something feels wrong. I am a true believer that strong emotions should be released, not held on to.

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I’m a control freak – I like to be on top of my life, my household, my day to day activities. This makes it difficult sometimes to ask for help. What I’ve realized is that it is essential for my happiness, my sanity, to let my husband, and our families, take over sometimes. Besides, it is crucial for my husband to have his own tasks to “control” at home – this not only makes him feel present and accomplished, but also gives me some much needed breaks throughout the day. Breaks that I don’t realize I need until… aah. 

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I have no problem saying I’m a people pleaser. I’m proud of the fact that I always make the effort to be pleasant, no matter my mood, no matter how tough of a day I’ve been having. Why? Because people who don’t are my pet peeve. I am uncomfortable around those who switch moods like outfits. It’s not difficult to put on a smile and not make people feel like they did something to upset you.

However, I do think that putting on this “happy face” can sometimes become a burden. Feeling the need to attend every birthday party, every event, or play date you’re invited to, despite how you’re feeling, can take a toll on you emotionally and physically. I put my pregnant self through many things this year that, deep down, I knew I should’ve just politely declined. In 2018, I vow to do the things that truly make me happy.

Don’t feel obligated to put everyone else before yourself because you “have” to. You don’t. It’s okay to say no when you don’t want to do something – your family and friends will understand.

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Finally, whether it’s to speak my mind or allow myself to be quirky, I just want to be me. I want to stop worrying about what people think (because, really, who cares?) and leave every situation feeling like I was 100% myself. I want to always be myself, unapologetically. I’m sure this is, and will remain, a work in progress for most of us. But this is the direction I want to work towards: to live a brave, confident, and genuine life, always.

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Holiday DIY Gifts for Family, Friends, and Colleagues


Need a last minute gift for a cousin you completely forgot about? A colleague who left a little something on your desk and now you feel super guilty you didn’t return the favor? Do you just want to stun your girlfriends with some homemade gifts?

This is the post for you! These DIY gifts are super easy to make and can be put together within a few minutes. I had a blast making them and know you will too. You’re welcome, Mamas!

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I have an obsession with mason jars. I love to drink out them, use them as vases, get crafty with them, etc. I couldn’t think of a better homemade gift than a creative mason jar idea! For this year’s Christmas, I put together these adorable cocoa and marshmallow mixes, complete with mini Bailey’s bottles. I figured everyone likes a nice cup of cocoa, and Bailey’s, well… those definitely won’t go to waste!

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For 6 mason jars (here) or 12 mini mason jars (here), all you need is:

3 bags small marshmallows

3 boxes Swiss Miss (10 packets each)

6 Bailey’s nips

thick printing paper (for the labels)

twine (to tie the bottles to the mason jars)

Empty 4-5 hot chocolate packets at the bottom of each mason jar, add the marshmallows, then seal the jar. Poke a hole through your label (I like to print each name in a nice font, then cut it out!) With the twine, make a knot around the neck of the Baileys bottle, feed the label through, and tie them both to the jar. The result is super cute!


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These lip balms are amazing, you guys. They’re only three ingredients, take about five minutes to make, and honestly work like a charm! I made a test batch and they’re super moisturizing and smell delicious. I love that you can personalize the scents with essential oils, based on preference. I went with peppermint and lavender, but you can use orange, lemon, eucalyptus, and the list goes on!

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All you’ll need is:

 5 tablespoons coconut oil

3 tablespoons beeswax (you can get some here)

12 drops essential oils (of choice)

You can use metal tins or actual chapstick containers. I got mine from here.

Just melt the beeswax and coconut oil in a pot, then add the drops. The mix will take some time to solidify, so just be patient and try not to move the containers if you want a nice smooth finish. Voila!


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For some reason, I always thought candles would be a challenging craft to tackle. I couldn’t have been more wrong! They’re not only super easy, but make great gifts, too.

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All you’ll need is:

A glass container/mason jar (I got mine from here)

Soy candle wax (enough flakes to fill your container – I got mine here )

12-15 drops essential oils

Small candlewick (I got a set here)

Fill your container with just enough soy wax flakes, melt them in the microwave (keep filling the container as the flakes start to melt), add essential oil drops to the wax while it’s still hot, then set the candle wick in the middle of the candle until it sets. I used two chopsticks to make sure it stayed centered and didn’t budge.

I like to add orange slices, coffee beans, rosemary, or lavender to my candles. Get creative with it! The add-ons look great when the wax solidifies. And don’t worry about them floating at the surface… they eventually sink to the bottom when the wax sets.


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Everyone likes a nice scrub once in a while. When I used to live in the Caribbean, my mom and I used to always sit by the edge of the ocean and use wet sand as a body scrub on our elbows and knees.  Unfortunately, this isn’t something I can do in New York, but who knew body scrubs were so easy to make at home? I love this coffee/brown sugar scrub recipe!

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All you’ll need is:

Mini Mason Jars (I got mine here)

1 cup ground coffee

1/2 cup brown sugar

1/2 cup coconut or almond oil

10 drops orange or peppermint essential oil (optional)

That’s it! Just store the scrub in an airtight container for up to 4 weeks.


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Those are my last minute DIY gifts! You have a full day to gather your supplies – go, go, go! And don’t forget to let me know if you try any of these and love them as much as I do 🙂

Note: If you’re interested in stocking up on mason jars, tin containers, and other craft supplies, my two favorite websites/shops for DIY projects are Nakpunar Craft & Party Supplies (they have everything craft-related!) and Smith’s Mason Jars (they have the cutest mini mason jars and soap dispensers!)

Mama Naturelle’s Top Picks for New Moms (December 2017)

Mama Naturelle's top picksHi Mamas! I’m finally in the home stretch (6 and a half weeks to go!) and it’s starting to really hit me that I’m about to give birth. That I’m about to go without sleep for weeks on end and experience bad latches, chapped nipples, and spit up again.

The postpartum/newborn stage is a tough one, we all know that, and it’s essential to feel ready (or at least as ready as possible!) to go through this challenging (but beautiful!) journey.

I took my time compiling my December picks, and that’s because most of the items listed below have to do with caring for a newborn baby or recovering from childbirth. I wanted this list to be extensive, and as helpful as possible to moms about to experience this stage.

You’ll find a variety of goodies here – from cute baby accessories and nursery must haves to postpartum must haves – many of which I did not have for Liam’s birth. I hope you’re as impressed with them as I was, and that some of these make it into your Amazon cart 🙂 I’m so excited to try them out with baby Noah!

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Hiccapop is an Amazon bestseller, and it’s obvious why: they have the most amazing products! I love their pregnancy pillow wedge (perfect for sleeping during the third trimester) and Day Dreamer, a cozy lounger/travel bed for newborns and infants. I love how lightweight it is, so I can move it throughout the house when necessary. So much more practical than lugging a bassinet or heavy duty swing around!

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There are lots of nursing covers and bibs out there, but I haven’t found many that I love as much as the ones by Amaroo . These ethnic, boho prints are adorable and stylish, and will match pretty much any outfit in my little guy’s closet 🙂

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I mean… how darn adorable are these baby moccasins by Little Lovebug Company? I am obsessed with them and can’t wait for Noah to wear his. I love that they actually have soft soles with non-slip grips. Perfect for the early standing days – less slips, rips, and trips! There are tons of sizes available for babies (6-12 months) through toddlerhood (size 6). Screen Shot 2017-12-20 at 9.32.57 AMScreen Shot 2017-12-20 at 10.02.58 AM.png

Ashtonbee has such a diverse amount of products available on their website. I just had to order their silicone breast pump to facilitate the pumping process when we’re on the go, but I also thought these crawling knee pads were a fantastic idea, too! I remember cringing when Liam started crawling on our wooden floors. Not super gentle on their little knees… but luckily, with number 2, problem fixed! Can’t wait to cheer our little crawler on!
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The international maternity brand Sweet Mommy has you covered for everything breastfeeding and newborn-related. For a winter pregnancy, I found so many amazing items on their website! I love their stroller cover (third photo) to make sure Liam is always bundled in and comfortable, and the Mommy & Me coat (fourth photo) is possibly the greatest invention ever. This cost has a zip insert to accommodate your little one! Their nursing tops are also incredibly soft and flattering. I got them in so many colors!

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Silk and More has been super popular on Etsy since 2009, and for good reason: their robes are super duper comfortable! I opted for a terry cloth one (in navy) because I know it will come in handy at the hospital and beyond once baby Noah gets here. You have to check out their bridesmaids robes, kaftans, hospital gowns, and more!

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Goodbye unflattering hospital robes! I am super excited about wearing this adorable, floral robe by Comfy Mommy on the big day. They have so many options that work for a ton of different occasions. Check them out!

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For my recovery with Liam, I froze maxi pads with witch hazel ahead of time and separated them from one another with saran wrap. This was such a great idea and I was so glad to have stocked up on them! God knows I needed it… This time, however, I found an even easier solution with VagiKool: reusable feminine cold packs! Probably not the most glamorous item on this list, but definitely one of the most useful!

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I heard of these Milkelle collection shells when I was nursing Liam and thought they were a great idea, but never got a chance to get a set. This time, however, I’m prepared! I’ll be able to collect those “liquid gold” drops that would otherwise go to waste during feeds and randomly throughout the day. Genius!

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I love a good drying rack for baby bottles and accessories, and this one by Lullababy comes with a brush/sponge cleaning set, too! What I love is that this drying rack is simple, and easier to clean than most of the fancier ones on the market. Perfect for our busy household!

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These Baomosi nursing bras are perfect because they’re not ridiculously bulky like some of the ones I got my hands on the first time around with Liam. They’re comfortable, but also really cute. Bonus: they come in packs of threes!

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If your baby has reflux or nasal congestion, or simply prefers to be propped up while in a lying down position, this Conforzy wedge is perfect for you! It has the ideal 12 degree angle recommended by pediatricians for newborns that use bassinets. It’s also waterproof and BPA free!

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 I’ve had this Snuggle Me for a while now and have been dying to use it with baby Noah! The summer Liam was born, my mom would take him outside and rock him to sleep on her lap. This simple lounger will be perfect for these tender moments. The padded sides make for a safe and cozy nap!

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I have a confession to make… I owned not one, but two, baby wearing slings when Liam was a newborn, but never used them. Yes, I blamed it on the fact that it was way too hot that year in June/July, and that Liam would cry every time I attempted to place him in, but I definitely didn’t give babywearing a fair chance.

This time around, however, with a winter baby, I intend to take full advantage of it.  Lil Peepers Keepers has a beautiful collection of baby slings that will work for any mom. Rebecca, the shop owner, also provides a wonderful guide on how to properly wear your baby. It may seem easy, but there is definitely a learning curve!

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I like to think that we will be able to reuse a lot of the nursery items we had for Liam as a baby, but his brush set was unfortunately beyond saving… Luckily, I found Babylinos on Amazon. Their wooden brush set is just perfect: you get four different brush types (a cradle cap silicone brush, natural goat hair bristle brush, wood bristle massager brush, and comb!) which, in my opinion, is a great deal. Liam had cradle cap as a newborn and I wish we’d had the silicone brush to gently massage his scalp instead of using a towel to rub the flakes off. This is a great set that I think will come in very handy in the next few months, if not years.  Wouldn’t it make a great baby shower gift, too?

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I’ve written about the known benefit of Amber before (Amber Teething Necklaces: Do They Really Work?), but mostly as a way to offer relief for teething babies. I was blown away when I found Umai Amber on Amazon. They focus on the wellbeing of babies, but also moms! From maternity necklaces to relieve heartburn and anxiety to postpartum necklaces to help with balance and positivity, you can take a deep breath knowing you’ve got that extra support. And if you don’t buy into the virtues of amber, read this.

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I actually can’t believe I didn’t think of buying these when I was breastfeeding Liam. By using these cloth nursing pads by Andy Met Ali (made from anti-bacterial bamboo rayon), you will avoid sending disposable breast pads to landfills. Even their packaging is eco friendly! And if you didn’t think of using breast pads at all, definitely do consider it. As sleep deprived Mamas (aka zombies), the last thing we need to worry about is milk stains!

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I’m obsessed with these nautical rail guards by Love Bug Linens. Unfortunately, I found their shop after doing Liam’s big boy room reveal, but their rail guards add something super special to his bedroom that I wish I could’ve captured on the reveal video. For years, we had a rail guard set from Amazon that was super hard to untie, so these are such an upgrade. Their quality is incredible!

That’s it for my postpartum/newborn must-haves, Mamas!

Hope you like what you saw. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!