Liam Turned Two (dles!)

This past month has been all about brainstorming, planning, ordering, list-making, and errand-running, so please excuse me if the blog has looked a little sad lately . . .

Our little man turned two this past Monday and, to celebrate, we threw him a Mickey Mouse-themed birthday party. This Mama worked her butt off, let me tell you that, but the payoff was so worth it. The party was a hit!

The kiddos had a blast watching Mr. Kazoom the Balloon Guy build their favorite Disney characters from scratch, while the adults, sporting Mickey and Minnie ears, browsed the “Hot Diggity Dog” bar’s yummy treats.

Over the course of the afternoon, our backyard filled up with friends and family and it was heartwarming to realize how lucky we are to be surrounded by so much love. That alone was worth every second of the planning process! We are blessed to have you all in our lives.

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The event was hard work and took weeks of planning, but none of it would’ve been possible without my amazing Etsy partners. They put their orders on standby and prioritized Liam’s party which meant the world to us. Thank you, thank you, thank you! It wouldn’t have been such a “two-rrific” day without your help and generosity 🙂

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How cute is this hand painted wooden sign by Amanda (MamasRusticDecor)? Thrilled that I was her very first custom order! 🙂

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Anita (KrafnStuff) did an amazing job on this “We’ve Got Ears Say Cheers” sign, but also on the “Hot Diggity Dog Bar” sign we hung up above the food table!
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OBSESSED with this Liam confetti! Leslie (PonderingPaper) always goes the extra mile to make her customers’ parties extra special!

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Jessica (TKPaperCo) made the cutest chalkboard sign for our food station. From “Minnie’s Bowtie Pasta Salad” to “Donald’s Cheese and Quackers” and “Plu-Ta-To Chips”, the signs were a perfect addition to our feast! The confetti you see sprinkled around is by Kimberly (ThePixieGardenPlace).

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I am still amazed by Allison’s (WinnieandWest)  incredible Disney letters! We used them for the food station and dessert table because they were just too cute! Liam actually wanted them on his bookshelf in his room after the party 🙂 This is the best touch for a little one’s birthday party! The quality is fantastic, too – you won’t be disappointed!

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Melissa (ThePinkGiraffe) did an incredible job on this “Happy Birthday” train banner but also on the “Come Inside, It’s Fun Inside” sign we hung up on our backyard fence. She even sent us the cutest little “Two-dles” Cake Topper that Liam kept showing all his guests!

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Love, love, love this sturdy photo booth frame by Lisbeth (AllPartyArt). I couldn’t believe how cute it turned out. All of our guests kept saying it was the best frame they’d seen at a birthday party! The “Liam” banner was by Ayelet (CelebratingDreams), who also did the most AMAZING job on our Mickey favor bags.

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The kiddos loved their cups by Kara (RaeLeeMaeCreations). How adorable are the retro paper straws? Obsessed! Kara also did an amazing job on the customized Ketchup and Mustard bottles she sent us. What an awesome touch!

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Angelica (Happy2Crafts) sent me the cutest Mickey weights for our balloon arrangements, but also these centerpiece props. We ended up using them as photo booth props because everyone suggested it – the kiddos loved them!
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Now, let’s talk favors – these ladies did the BEST job on these! Charlene (CharsFunCrayons) and Randi (AlphaCrayons) have the most unique Etsy shops and I highly recommend you visit them for birthday favors you haven’t seen before. Lilly (PartybyDrake) sent me adorable Mickey and Minnie bubble wands, and, to this day, Moms are still telling me how practical they are on the go at the park or on a day out! Finally, Rosa (RJPartyCreations) so generously sent me these candy wands that were a major hit with our guests! The chocolate candy was delicious and the wands such a showstopper! Thank you ladies so, so much!

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Both banners you see in the background were a huge hit with our guests! Brandy (BrandalynsPaperie) sent us the top Mickey Ear/Hand/Heart Banner, and Monica (PartyLux) sent us the flag banner below it, along with a ton of confetti we sprinkled on the food table. Thank you ladies!

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All three of us were OBSESSED with our family t-shirts by Nora (FrontSight). Ours said “Mama Mouse” and “Daddy Mouse” and Liam’s said “Birthday Mouse”. How adorable?! We got so many compliments! The shirts were so soft and comfortable too – so happy with them!

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A few outfit changes for our Liam – I’m obsessed with both of these! Rachelle from TheSassySeedling sent us the “Two” shirt and Bree (PiggyHadTea) sent us the red Mickey tie shirt. Thank you ladies!

Again, thank you so much to everyone who contributed to the party and made it such a hit… You guys were amazing to work with and really made the day magical and unforgettable for Liam. Now, to my readers: if you are planning a birthday party or other themed event and if you like what you see above, please work with these Etsy vendors. They were all absolute GEMS to work with! You will not regret it!

 

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6 Life Lessons I’m Learning From My Two-Year-Old

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He doesn’t care if everyone in the store is looking at him as he makes chicken and monkey noises at the top of his lungs. Our kids aren’t trapped, like we are, in our adult shells. If there’s any advice I can learn from my son, it’s to have more fun. Who cares what anyone else thinks?

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4 Easy, Healthy, Eco-Friendly Changes You Can Make in Your Home Today

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I’m always asking myself how we can be more health-conscious and eco-friendly in our home. Lately, I’ve made four switches that make me feel a lot better – I hope you will jump on that bandwagon, too!

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My motto is this: If you use something every single day, it needs to be guilt-free. Knowing what I know about antiperspirants and the dangers of aluminum, parabens, and other common ingredients, I stopped using antiperspirant years ago. I always thought it was unnatural to use something that actually blocked the flow of sweat when that is something our bodies do for a reason.

However, even the deodorant I had used for years (Arm & Hammer Essentials Deodorant) wasn’t as clean as I wanted it to be.

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My favorite Native scent is Coconut & Vanilla – Smells like a tropical vacation 🙂

I recently made the switch to Native, a deodorant free of all of these awful ingredients that actually works… and for 24 hours! If, like me, you are concerned about the rise of breast cancer (1 out of 8 US women will develop invasive breast cancer in her lifetime), make the switch. You won’t regret it.

 

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Why make the switch? Wooden toys are safe from harmful chemicals that our young kiddos are especially sensitive to. Our infants and toddlers don’t just play with these toys, they nibble, bite, and chew them – plastic toys often contain phthalates, BPA, or PVC, all dangerous chemicals that mimic or suppress normal hormone regulation and have been linked to problems related to early puberty, obesity, and cancer. Many traditional toys have been recalled in the past due to lead – lead ingestion can lead to brain and learning disabilities.

Why worry about these things? I’d rather be confident that what I am buying for my child is safe and chemical-free.

What I also love about wooden toys is that they tend to foster imagination – no need for batteries, electricity, or software. They are often educational, engage a child’s imagination, and encourage creative open ended play. The kind of play that helps them develop many cognitive skills. These toys are also durable and lasting – they will survive many years of use and abuse! Financially, they are a true investment – you will most likely have them for decades.

Two of my favorite brands are Dragon Drew and Santoys (pictured above).

  • Dragon Drew products are made up of 100% real wood and comply with all international toy safety standards. Their toys are made from renewable resources with non-toxic paints for safe play. I love their pretend play sets, like their doctor kit, toiletry set, and breakfast playset. I mean, seriously… how cute are they?
  • Santoys build 100% of our products within their own factory in Thailand. Their toys are made of replenishable rubber wood, an eco-friendly, sustainable, and high quality wood. Santoys uses strict production techniques to ensure high quality and safe wooden toys. Some of my favorites are their Super Carrier Lorry, Portable Builder Workbench, and Velcro Cutting Food Pretend Play.

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Although dryer sheets work extremely well to soften clothing and reduce static, they can contain hundreds of unlabeled, untested chemicals that come into direct contact with the body on a 24/7 basis. And as if that wasn’t enough, dryer sheets are awful for the environment.

Want to make the switch? I recently discovered the brand Friendsheep on Amazon. Their fabric softener wool balls are individually hand felted with 100% premium organic New Zealand wool, and then sun dried.

Their dryer balls are organic, contain no fillers or additives, and shorten drying time by up to 40% (they absorb up to 30% of their weight in water!) saving you time, energy, and money. They are environmentally friendly, hypoallergenic, chemical and fragrance free. You get so much more  for your money – they are reusable (last for thousands of loads!), safe, and biodegradable. For a fresh scent, you can add 3-5 drops of your favorite essential oil (lavender for the win!) so your laundry always smells fresh and clean 🙂

* If $23.95 for 6 wool dryer balls is a little steep for your budget right now, I recommend the brand Delana. Their packs come in sets of 5 wool dryer balls for $10.49!

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I want to stop using as much plastic but find it daunting to entirely eliminate it at once. One solution I found is to stop buying cases of plastic bottles and solely use a reusable water bottle. Here are a few reasons to stop buying and using so much plastic (source):

  1. Most plastic is made from fossil fuels like oil and natural gas, which release toxic emissions when extracted from the earth.
  2. Petrochemical plants pollute communities and harms workers.
  3. Plastics contain additives that can offgas and contaminate the air in our homes and other personal spaces.
  4. Plastics release hazardous emissions when burned.
  5. Plastic recycling can be hazardous to communities and workers.

Plastic is bad for our air. Bad for our oceans. Bad for our planet.

Bad for our kids.

I did quite a bit of research on the dangers of plastic, and what hit me hard is that plastic bottles take on average 450 to 1,000 years to fully decompose. That means that all of the plastic that has been created in our lifetimes is still around, on land or in our oceans. How horrible is that? So if, like us, you’d like to reduce your family’s plastic consumption, get a water dispenser and a reusable water bottle. I bought mine at TJ Maxx (under $7) and even got my two-year-old a little one at Target.

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To My First Born, On Mother’s Day

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A mother doesn’t become a mother overnight – she evolves, adapts, shedding skin after skin. The day those two pink lines appeared, so literally, matter-of-factly, before my eyes, I met the woman I’d soon become. You made me me, and I thank you for it.

. . .  You know you’re a mom when your Mother’s Day post is all about your kid! Check out the rest of my post for Westchester County Moms Blog here!

“Time Out”: Will It Traumatize My Child?

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I never thought that “time-out” would be my thing until that one play date where Liam, my almost two-year-old, decided to experiment with hitting and pulling other kids’ hair. There was literally nothing I could do to stop him – he was in that kind of mood, a feisty, assertive mood I had never seen him in before that afternoon.

I assured the moms that this was certainly not the Liam I knew, but it didn’t help my embarrassment… No one wants their child to be that child. I was mortified.

After multiple “chats” in the corner of the room, I had no choice but to remove him from the situation entirely. Embarrassment aside, I had no idea what to do – how could I tackle “time-out” in a way that would teach my young child that what he did was “wrong”? Would he understand that his actions were to not be reproduced, or would he simply be traumatized by the abrupt punishment?

I took him out of the play space (luckily, it was our living room), plopped him in his crib, explained that he was in “time-out”, and closed the door. I stood outside for 30-45 seconds, then went back in and asked him if he was ready to play nice again. He nodded eagerly, so I assumed he meant yes.

I had no idea if what I was doing was okay, I just did it. I knew, in the moment, that I needed to remove him from the situation, I just didn’t know if it was the right way to do it.

That night, I did a bit of research on time-out methods and how to successfully teach a toddler that what he did was “wrong”. It is one thing to teach a four-year-old to stop doing something, but an entirely different one to explain it to a 22-month-old.

This is what I learned:

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For toddlers, you want to treat the time-out as a short break from an “overstimulating” situation. There is no need to make your child feel abandoned, so it is best to sit in a quiet room together – do your best to not talk or get visibly upset.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says it’s fine to give children as young as 1 a time-out (although 2 is more effective), but only as a last resort – don’t call time-out whenever your child does something “bad”, but rather when he does something dangerous (hit the dog, for example) or something that can lead to bad habits (like being pushy with other kids).

Don’t expect your toddler to get much out of time-out, but rather use it as “quiet time” to be able to reenter the stimulating situation with a calmer attitude. At this age, time-out should never be treated as a “punishment” – All it is is a break, an opportunity to nip the bad behavior in the bud.

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The key is to choose a time-out setting that is quiet. This can be another room or your child’s crib or pack and play. In this setting, your child should be able to regroup and calm down in about a minute (a good rule of thumb is one minute per year- but some argue that this only applies to children two and up.)

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Although your toddler may not be able to take a step back from the situation and analyze his own behavior, it is essential to explain that what he did was wrong. Make your explanation immediate, brief, and calm. Use direct eye contact and be firm. You may want to do this as a warning: “if you hit and hurt ____, we’ll take a time-out because it’s not nice to hurt other babies”. The more specific you are, the more likely your child will understand that what he did wasn’t okay. Explain why it’s time for a time-out so that, hopefully, your child thinks twice before doing said action again.

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Even if what your child did was unacceptable, do not berate him. Assume that the time-out itself is enough of a lesson. Once time-out is over, leave the bad behavior behind you and move on.

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When time-out is over, give your child a hug, a sign of affection that tells him that you still love him regardless of his bad behavior. Instead of reiterating that what he did was bad, focus on a positive. You can say something like, “okay, let’s go play with ____ again – why don’t we read a book together?” or “why don’t you show ____ how nicely you can play?” The goal is to distract your child from the upsetting situation and move on in a positive way. Assume the lesson has been learned.

Note – Until your child is able to determine what good and behaviors are (around the age of 3), limit time-outs and make sure they are only used when absolutely necessary (dangerous situations, for example). Do not abuse them. Keep in mind that toddlers are still in the “discovery” phase, and that it is our job, as parents, to teach them right from wrong. A clear, firm explanation can go a long way!

Anxiety After the Incident: When Mom Needs to Realize She’s Not Okay

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Even if you were fortunate enough to never experience true, debilitating anxiety before having children, I’m sure you’ve realized by now that motherhood comes with quite a bit of baggage in the stress department. It seems as if all we do as moms is worry about our kids… then worry some more. We lose sleep over the smallest issues, Googling health concerns we never, in a million years, thought we could have.

But it’s only when something really scary happens to our little ones that we realize the immense responsibility on our shoulders: our jobs have no breaks, no days off, no leniency. We must be alert, attentive, and in tune with our kids at all times to make sure they stay safe. We cannot fail our children, because that would mean failing ourselves, too.

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